Parkinson’s Disease Awareness Month, Two Years After My Diagnosis

Dr. James Parkinson tulip

Everyone’s experience of living with Parkinson’s Disease is different and I thought it was time to share mine during Parkinson’s Disease Awareness Month. It has been two years since my diagnosis yet most people that meet me for the first time are unaware that I have PD.

The red tulip is the international symbol of Parkinson’s disease and was chosen as a symbol of hope for Parkinson’s sufferers. The flower is a red Triumph tulip with a white edge named the Dr James Parkinson tulip by a Dutch horticulturalist who himself was living with Parkinson’s.

More than 10 million people worldwide are living with this devastating disease of the nervous system. Following Alzheimer’s disease, Parkinson’s disease (PD) is the second most common neurodegenerative disorder in the United States with nearly 90,000 people being diagnosed each year. Experts predict that the number of people with Parkinson’s disease will double by 2042.

I’m lucky that so far medicine has my tremors under control and it is just little things that have changed. If I haven’t told someone, I don’t think they would guess that I have PD unless they are familiar with the disease. My neurologist says that he believes I’m lucky as it started later in my life and to just think of it as a little inconvenience.

Like many parts of the body, we tend to take our hands for granted. When healthy, our brain coordinates the muscles, joints and 27 bones in each hand to work together to carry out a task; it is referred to as having good dexterity. When my left hand started to work less efficiently, was painful and had a slight tremor, that was when I made an appointment with a neurologist.

Stiffness and slowness of movement (bradykinesia) make hand and wrist movements more difficult and I’ve lost a lot of my dexterity so my hands don’t move as precisely or quickly as they should. I’ve adapted my routines by adding extra time to each activity whether planning a meal or preparing to go out for an evening with friends. I joke with my husband that I’ve gone from being like a fast hare to now being like a slow tortoise.

PD has made the process of getting dressed a little more challenging, particularly fastening buttons, pulling zippers, tying bows and putting on jewelry which at one time I could do almost automatically. When you button a shirt, one hand holds the material and opens the buttonhole so the other hand can hold the button and push it through; simple but not for me anymore.

The plastic bags in the produce department are frustrating to open as are hermetically sealed bags of crackers, nuts or chips. Screw top bottles and jars will not open unless I use a specially designed tool. I find it difficult to cut lots of foods even if they are tender. I order my salads chopped and ask if a steak can be served sliced. If my huband and I are at a buffet, he will carry my plate back to the table and often helps cut items on my plate that I am having difficulty with.

Using my computer to write my blog also takes much longer than it used to as my typing has dramatically slowed. My fingers don’t stretch as they should so I hit a lot of wrong keys and they sometimes cause me to touch the same key two or three times. Needless to say, there is a lot of editing to be done.

Everyone’s Parkinson’s is unique and while I may becoming a tortoise, I’m learning to live with these little annoyances and try to keep a positive attitude. So far there is no cure for this disease but there are medicines to help control it. Hopefully this “minor inconvenience in my life” will stay minor for some time to come and in the meantime I’m going to try to live life to the fullest. I have a wonderful support system with my loving husband and good friends always at the ready.

“Do not let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do.”

(John Wooden)

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45 thoughts on “Parkinson’s Disease Awareness Month, Two Years After My Diagnosis

  1. I do not have anyone in my circle dealing with this so thank you for the explanation. It is wonderful that your medical plan is able to assist you in doing all that you can. Great quote that we should all remember especially as we age and encounter new medical issues. Take care.

  2. Thank you, Karen for the update. I have a dear friend with PD and have learned much about the disease from her. Sending prayers for you as you navigate those small tasks that are now more challenging. Blessings, dear one!

  3. Karen, thank you for sharing your story and this information about PD. I have a friend who was diagnosed with PD about a year ago. I love the quote and your attitude! Every day is a gift!

  4. Karen, what a beautifully eloquent explanation of the situation in which you find yourself. You are managing it with such grace and, you are correct, if one didn’t know you had PD, one would never suspect.

    Kiki

  5. I love your attitude to the max and hope this stays a minor inconvenience for a long time. I’m sure that every day you come up with a new strategy to make things easier. I’m just glad you can enjoy the things you love — travel, good food, and loveliness. I learned a long time ago to cherish each and every day and I can see you do exactly that. Sending all good wishes for your prognosis and thank you so much for sharing it with us.

  6. I know chef Fergus Henderson, who has had Parkinson’s since his 40s. He had deep brain stimulation (almost 20 years ago) – involving implants which provide electricity that arrests the tremmor. This seriously improved his life in a miraculous way.

    You are in good company if nothing else!

  7. I would have never guessed as you seem to live such an active life with incredible travels and wonderful food. Attitude is everything as we meet challenges in life, especially as we grow older. You are an inspiration Karen~

    Jenna

  8. Dear Karen, keep up your positive attitude and enjoy every day. Your attitude is admirable and I hope that it will help you through the not so good days. Thank you for sharing your illness with us.

  9. I am privileged to see you frequently and you are right, if someone doesn’t know you have PD, they would not guess. Blessings and prayers.  Pam

  10. I’m sorry to learn that you are having to deal with this but glad it’s fairly minor and hopefully will stay that way. Thanks for shing you story with us.

  11. It’s a devastating thing to find out, Karen, but a positive mindset will help you a lot. A close walking friend was diagnosed 6 years ago. We only see him in February and October so the changes have been noticeable but he’s still walking with us, though not as far as he once did. The meds are very good and his wife and family give all the encouragement they can. Thanks for sharing this with us. A brave move on your part. Sending hugs 🤗🩷

  12. Thank you for sharing your journey with Parkinson’s. I know there are days that definitely can’t be easy, but you show us how precious each day is and how to make the most of each one with fortitude and grace.

  13. That is a great explanation that you shared and I think a positive attitude is key. Thank you for making the effort to explain Parkinson’s. Everyone has something to deal with, whether it is visible or not. We need to all treat each other with compassion and kindness to make the world a better place. And life is truly a gift. Blessings to you and your family.

  14. It takes a great will of power to deal with PD. I know it’s not easy to write it, thank you for sharing your journey with us. I’m glad it’s minor. Appreciate you continue posting and share your recipes. Take care, Karen. (((hugs)))

  15. Your positive attitude will carry you far. I do not know anyone with PD so I appreciate the information you provided. I am so happy that your medical team is attending to you accurately. I will continue to pray for you my friend.

  16. I did not know you had PD. You seem to be taking it in stride which is great. Attitude and adaptation is a great way to face a diagnosis like this. Best wishes for continuing good health.

  17. Thank you for sharing your experience, Karen. I know others with PD and so have a little idea of how challenging it can be. You have such a brilliant attitude and I hope it will help you to stay with minor inconveniences for a long time to come and allow you to live your life to the fullest. All good wishes to you for the future.

  18. Karen, thanks for not letting PD interfere with your ability to express yourself here.
    I always find it curious when special days are given a floral emblem. The problem is in some situations, for example, bulbs being a spring flower in most places, it’s a bit hard to get tulips in Autumn in the southern hemisphere.

  19. I send you lots of good wishes and hope that you continue to live a great life. My husband was diagnosed with a form of Motor Neurone Disease when he was 33. Thankfully he is still going strong (enough) 33 years on! But it has been a hard road, and he does brilliantly even with disability. All best wishes to you!

    cheers

    sherry https://sherryspickings.blogspot.com/

  20. Thank you for sharing so openly here. I’m glad you have a supportive husband and friends (and of course all your blog network who all wish you well too 😊). I think your positive attitude and outlook is an inspiration!

  21. A perfect quote at the end Karen. I am glad that you are able to keep it under control with medication and hope that medical advances will keep it at ‘a minor inconvenience’ for many years to come. A positive attitude is so important and I can see from your blog posts that you still can enjoy cooking and travelling to the full. So well done and all the best!

  22. Thank you for letting us know how you are doing. I think of you often. As in everything, attitude makes a huge difference and yours is wonderful. All the best as you continue to enjoy life. xo

  23. What an inspiration you are! I am so happy that you are doing well and living life to the fullest despite the challenges you’ve had to overcome. Sending good wishes your way!

  24. dThank you for your update. I know several people with PD and they are each dealing with it in their own way. I am 71 and have had Essential Tremor since I’ve been in High School, but it’s gotten worse as I’ve gotten older. Some days i’m rock solid and can play piano like I used to – other days are a challenge, so I can appreciate some of what you’re going through. Best wishes for you! Love your blog!

  25. I had no idea that PD affected so many people worldwide…or that it is predicted to double so quickly. You truly are an inspiration, so keep it up, Karen!

  26. Karen, thank you for sharing your Parkinson Disease journey with us. It’s important for all of us to understand how many of people deal with chronic illness each day, and just because we cannot see it, does not mean it does not exist.

    You live your life with grace. PD has slowed you down but you have found ways to continue to do what you love, I love that. Cheers to many, many more years!

    Best,

    Velva

  27. I was wondering how it was going Karen. I am glad the “little annoyances” are not holding you back. You are a great inspiration to me. Sending much love and hugs your way my friend.

  28. Thank you so much for this update, Karen. My uncle was recently diagnosed with PD and it’s been helpful to understand more about how this disease affects daily life through your experience. The way you move through and embrace life has always inspired me and it gives me hope that he’ll be able to do the same too. Sending you lots of hugs and prayers and thank yous for these posts. I know they’re not easy, CoCo

  29. It is amazing it has been two years already! And thank you for sharing what is very personal. My parents have a friend with PD and I have seen how many things he has struggled with, and how much he copes with. I hope you carry on coping, even if slowly 🙂

  30. I’m glad I saw this because I don’t believe I remembered that you recently found out that you had Parkinsons! Our next door neighbor was just also diagnosed about two years ago and you’d never know she has it either when you speak with her. She is in her mid 70s so perhaps her age at diagnosis is lucky also. All the best to you, Karen! 

  31. Karen, thank you for your courageous blog post & sharing so vulnerably with all of us. I am always amazed at how connected I have come to be towards those whom I have followed for a lengthy time & I count you as one. Please know I lift up a prayer of gratitude to have found your site and I always value and appreciate the time & effort you put into each post…now more than ever. You are an inspiration – but even before PD entered your life! Thank you for carrying-on valiantly as a beacon of hope for those who are blessed enough to share in your adventurous life!

  32. This was very interesting and helpful and I thank you for sharing. I’ve known a few people with Parkinson’s. One sadly declined rapidly but the other two did well into old age, though I always struggled to read my (brilliant) grad school advisor’s comments on my work! I have essential tremor and have had to make some accommodations, but far less, for which I am grateful. (Including dictating to text or make notes on my phone which is so helpful). You’re a testament to resilience and more proof of what one can do despite obstacles. 

  33. Thank you for sharing your personal journey with Parkinson’s Disease, your resilience and positive outlook are truly inspiring. It’s remarkable how you’ve adapted to the changes in your life, finding new ways to navigate daily tasks and embracing each moment with gratitude. Your determination to live life to the fullest despite the challenges is a testament to your strength. You’re not just facing Parkinson’s, you’re thriving with it, surrounded by a loving support system. Keep shining your light and spreading awareness, reminding us all to focus on what we can do, rather than what we cannot.

  34. Karen, thanks so much for sharing with us. It just so happens that my mom told me she went to a lecture today about Parkinson’s and Alzheimer’s. Two things I wish they could find a cure for. Your information could surely help push people in the right direction to seek help. So glad you are holding up. I imagine some days are harder than others. On those days it might help to imagine the beautiful tulips, that from now on will remind me of you. Hugs.

  35. Thank you for sharing your story, Karen. No matter how slowly your disease progresses, it is still very difficult to cope with all the changes in your routines. Buttons. Who knew how hard they could be? And jewelry. I had never thought of these things because my good friend (diagnosed at 49) always wears t-shirts and sweatpants (he always has). Easy for him, but you are so elegant—and elegance doesn’t come with a sweatpants/t-shirt combo. Yet you persevere. Perhaps when I was in Paris, I was drawn to the red and white tulips in some sort of psychic way in support of you and my friend. Enjoy being the tortoise as you can. I’m sending you warm hugs. David

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